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Police warn that so-called “blessing” scams exploit worries about a family member's illness, bad luck, or danger. Scammers may claim they can remove misfortune, heal someone, or bring good fortune, then ask for cash, jewellery, or other valuables. Do not hand over property because the story is detailed, more than one person is involved, or you are told to keep it secret.

What to do at the time

  1. Leave the situation: do not go elsewhere with strangers and do not give them cash, jewellery, or a package.
  2. Contact family: tell a family member or trusted person straight away and ask them to help assess what happened.
  3. Record and report: when safe, note appearances, location, vehicle, phone details, or messages. Call 111 for an immediate threat; call 105 for other scam information or a report.

A protection rule families can agree in advance

Agree with older relatives that an unfamiliar person talking about a family curse, danger, or a “blessing” is a cue to leave and call family. Put this simple rule near the phone or in a wallet; it is more reliable than trying to judge a stranger's story under pressure. Do not blame someone who has been targeted: a person who is not afraid of blame is more likely to ask for help quickly and preserve evidence.

A simple rule for older people

If a stranger talks about blessings, bad luck, or your valuables: give no money or jewellery, leave, and call family.

Recognising the pressure in a “blessing” scam

Police have publicly warned that people may claim a family faces misfortune, or that a ritual can remove a curse or bring good luck, then persuade someone to hand over cash or jewellery and keep it secret. Spiritual, health, or fortune concerns can feel personal, but a stranger demanding valuables, secrecy, or immediate action is a reason to leave.

How bystanders can help an older person

Avoid blame or a public argument, which can make someone less willing to seek help. Calmly suggest going home to check with family, and leave together. Do not keep following the people involved or hand over further items. Where safe, note descriptions, location, vehicles, companions, and time; keep relevant information for Police.

What to do after a loss

If a transfer, bank card, or account information was involved, contact the bank promptly, explain the suspected scam, and ask about account-protection steps. Keep packaging, notes, messages, photos, and payment records. Report to Police on 105 when there is no immediate danger; call 111 if there is an immediate threat. Telling family and reporting early can also help others stay alert.

One family agreement

Agree with parents and older relatives that no stranger may take money or jewellery for a blessing, health claim, investment, or secret. First leave, then call family, and decide together.

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